Mascara to Manhood

          Proverbs 17:17  " A friend is always loyal, but  a brother is born to help in time of need."       At this point  I  was everywhere. After  realizing  that  I  had to cut out shows and songs,  I  wondered what else  I  would have to cut out.  I  had never been actually friends with any guys and  I  felt that honestly, that was for the best.  I  was cutting out things that promoted men so why should  I  connect with men, if that was my issue. When  I  first began this journey, after allowing Jesus to change me,  I  was against  being  around guys.  I  lived in a house with 5 other guys my first year of schooling and  I  was always  afraid if I took the time to get to know them, I'd be attracted to them. I'd spent 24/7 with my cousin, avoiding male contact, so bonding with guys just wasn't on my todo list.       This was a lie from the enemy though. God created us as relational creatures in order for us to help each other and commune with one an